We live in a society where it seems “Yoruba demons” or “f*** boys” exists and an era where cheating has become the order of the day. It has been said often that: “all men have the tendencies to cheat”. Some guys are so smart at playing the game that they can make the side babe look like she’s the main babe. Things like this are what make ladies generalise that “men are scums”
Usually men get from the side babe what the main babe ain’t giving to them, well that’s issue for another day. Some ladies are proud alternatives, some think they are the main babes meanwhile they are just the alternative while others graduate from being a main babe to the side babe.
If you find yourself dating a guy.. These are 7 signs you are just an alternative or the side babe:
*HE DODGES TAKING PICTURES WITH YOU
Facebook, Twitter, snapchat and instagram are the trendy media and lovers leverage on that to express how they feel to each other. But the moment you notice your guy shy away from taking pictures with you. It’s obvious you are the side babe cause your guy doesn’t want to cast. Lol
*HE WONT LET YOU USE HIS PHONE
Whenever both of you are together, he’s always on guard with his phone, he wouldn’t allow you have access to his phone and most times his phone got password. Babes, “wake up ” cause he’s obviously hiding something from you. Try test him by asking for his phone, once he freaks out, You are a certified side babe.
*HE DOESN’T USE YOUR PICTURE AS DP.
Not for once has he used your picture on his dp or posted on any of his social media platform not even on your birthday “Side babe Alert” cause a man who loves his woman should flaunt her to the world.
*YOU DONT KNOW WHERE HE LIVES
You guys have been dating for a while and he hasn’t for once invited you over to his house and most times you guys chill at your place or a hotel. Its visible to the blind that you are a side babe. Because there are chances that he lives with his woman(main babe) or wants to avoid a scenario where you come to his house uninvited.
*HE HASNT INTRODUCED YOU TO HIS FAMILY
A man with a woman(main babe) is likely not to introduce you(side babe) to his family. What is he going to introduce you as?? Lol…
*HE DOESNT SHOW AFFECTION IN PUBLIC
When you try to hold his hands and he pulls them away, or he never allows you kiss or get closer to him in public or avoids mushy thingy in public. There’s a tendency that you are the alternative.
*HE HANGS OUT WITH YOU SAME TIME EVERY WEEK.
If this happens to you, there a possibility that you are a substitute. When your meeting Venue becomes a constant place and he usually meets you during the week probably on a particular day, there’s a possibility that the main babe might be busy at that time of the day.