PAIN-MENT OR PAYMENT? WHAT ARE YOU RECEIVING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

In every relationship, we are either receiving payment or pain-ment. If you are in a friendship/relationship where you are appreciated and not used then you are receiving payment but if you in an abusive relationship or you have friends that only use you to solve their problems, dump you afterwards and resurface when there is another problem then you receiving pain-ment. A relationship/friendship is either sweet (payment-ful) or sour relationship/friendship (pain-ment-ful). To know if you are getting payment or pain-ment is to watch out for the people in your life who just want you to always pay all the sacrifices for them. They are called predators, they are happy and willing to feed on you the prey, such relationship is parasitic.

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As a woman, you give a man your love, time, do everything you can to make him happy and you still have to beg for space in his life, you are receiving pain-ment. Men, if you give a woman love, time, respect, nourish her (care for her) and you still have to question her love or you cannot confidently say you are loved by her. Charlie (meaning Man/Bro), you are receiving pain-ment. If you are in a relationship where someone constantly puts you down with words or make you feel like you can’t do anything good(emotional abuse) is pain-ment you are getting ooo. My cousin is dating a guy who constantly makes her feel like she is a mistake and he is helping her correct her life. He’s manipulated her to the point where she now believes that he is helping her keep things straight in her life (co-coordinating her life).Most times when there is an argument he makes her feel that he is keeping her sane and that leaves her with one thing in her head ”I always disappoint him”. .
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Some people are so good with mind game that they know how to make you look or feel like a bad person so they don’t feel guilty about the things they did to you. If you are experiencing such or anything similar, you are not getting paid, you are getting pain. ( Click the link in @amazingalero bio to read more )

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